Ring Bearers

A ring bearer is usually a male child between three and eight years old. He usually has a special connection to the bride or groom. This adorable little guy can be a son, nephew, cousin or family friend.  In the past, he would carry the actual wedding rings tied to a satin pillow, but that has proven to be hazardous.  Nowadays, the ring bearers carries fake rings instead of the actual wedding rings.  Since the ring bearers aren't carrying the real rings, it's acceptable to have two ring bearers depending on your family structure.  For safe keeping, the best man holds the brides ring in his pocket, and maid or matron of honor is responsible for the groom's ring. Children often become nervous, so making sure they practice is vital to avoid a case of stage fright.  It's also a good idea to have his parent(s) sit on the front row so he has the option to sit with them, if needed.  Another option is to assign him to a specific groomsman to stand next to during the ceremony, preferably someone he knows. As far as attire, the ring bearer can wear a rented little tuxedo. To save money, shop online or purchase a black suit from a department store.  A suit may be more practical since he can where it again.